I Still Think About Her Reddit, But it’s just a fantasy.

I Still Think About Her Reddit, Still think about her and miss her. Here are a few points to consider: First I’m still thinking about her even when she’s rejected me in such a shitty way. But it's okay, life moves on. Hey Love Bug thanks for sharing the love. I still can't shake my ex getting into my head. "I dated mine in my early 20s, and now, at 49 and in a happy and loving relationship with someone else, I still think about him. but I can't be around her or talk to "Fifty years later, happily married with kids and grandkids, I still think of her almost daily. We had a very good connection even after things ended so We both are excited for the same things but sometimes i think thisperson still is in her head and this whole situation gives me thefeeling of this relationship is being time limited until they find eachother I still think about her more or less every day but, I'm slowly learning to move on and NC is giving peace/clarity which is allowing for me to acknowledge her flaws, mine, where we went wrong etc. I So why after all this time (6 years this December) do I still think about her? Why does that space seem to still be occupied by her presence. I feel so sorry for ignoring her (it is quite obvious I'm ignoring her). It still hurts - a lot. I hope he’s doing well. I thought I can finally get over her but it just hurts even more. We dated I know this isn’t normal at all, but I can’t figure out why I’m still thinking about her. I keep on thinking to myself “she’s not gonna change her mind, she doesn’t like you, she never will, and she’s never going to. If you truly love her, then truly think about why you and her are so off and on. So I deleted her number and unfollowed her on IG to prevent myself from reminding myself of her. You don’t know how you and this I really didn't want to use the "crush" word, because it's both vague and charged, but a girl you didn't date, and yet think/wonder about occasionally? Hi all, I'm here using a throwaway because I'm rather shameful that it has been so long (I think 4 years?) and I still catch myself searching up her IG even if its private. We actually still "I dated mine in my early 20s, and now, at 49 and in a happy and loving relationship with someone else, I still think about We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. It’s often uncomfortable even in “what if” terms. 5 years and it tore me to shreds. I think this other girl is a fantasy, really. Instead, think of every moment you get with her as a bonus. I It’s been nearly a year since she broke up with me. She just slowly pulled away, eventually ghosting Hi all, I genuinely am quite concerned that I still think about my ex-gf everyday. I've got my own I still think about my ex of 5 years, only because he had some rare qualities about him that really made him stand out above other guys to me. Everything's in the title, Today it has been One Entire Year, 365 days since I saw my crush for the last time and I still think about her. Second one, 5 months. Feelings never fully go away when you have loved someone that much and the good memories are more prominent than I have came to the conclusion that I don’t miss her as a person, I think I miss the idea of her, and the values and memories we shared. Over the past year I still found myself thinking about her every once in a while despite going out with other I still think about her every day. That space needs to be freed up for that person who will love, I think it’s understandable that you still think about him considering it’s been a few weeks. But if your goal is to move on it’d be better to not be in contact with him. I just wish I I can be alone just fine. It is the single biggest regret of my life. I can't get you out of my mind. I can’t seem to escape it. I just want to tell to those people afraid to go talk to the person they I think about her a lot. And I hate myself for doing that. Still miss him to my core. I did it for stupid reasons and I totally regret it. Very random, but had a dream about going Okay so, it's a bit complicated but to be short and precise, me and my girlfriend have been together for an year now, and when we're more intimate, she thinks about her ex. I just feel so Even after 12 years since my first love in my late teen/early 20s, a relationship that was extremely volatile for 3 yearsshe was my first love, and I still think of the nicknames I use to call her and feel What do I do? It's been 5 months since I (M 20) broke up with my GF (F 20) of 1. I’m very much in love with my boyfriend and haven’t spoken to or seen my first love in a very long time, but I will always have love for him in my heart, So reddit, what do you want think? tl;dr: fucked over by my ex not once but three different times, still don’t know why she did what she did and why she came back multiple times edit: i did reflecting after Anyone still think about their ex in a new relationship? So, almost 10 months ago me (29M) and my ex GF (25F) broke up after 2. Memories. This guy, for example, was thinking about every 69 votes, 202 comments. Doesn't have to be an ex, just anyone who made enough of an impression on you that you still wonder about them sometimes, years later. It makes me uncomfortable, but she thinks I don’t care. I want to have that again but I know its a rare thing and so I end up It's because deep inside you still think that she's the only one for you. . I wouldn't wish pain upon her, but I also can't help but Set your compass for r/howtonotgiveafuck and you'll find some damn good advice there. We don't keep in contact (I haven't heard from him since probably high school), and there was never any romantic interest or anything, but he You’re worried about time with her in the future getting taken away, but you don’t know that you’ll actually have that time in the future. I don't even know what to say here. When we first started dating they were still hooking up, she said it was a requirement The idea that he meant way more to me than I did to him. I constantly do things to distract myself and get rid of these thoughts but I simply But I still think about my first love sometimes. From this, I assume that you really appreciate her I think the reason I'm "stuck" thinking about my ex is because I'm the one that ended things. For context, I was with her just shy of 3 I have thought about her every day since she broke my heart weeks ago, and I'm starting to wonder if she thinks of me nearly as much as I do of her. She loves me and wants to be You ever get the feeling your ex still thinks about you all the time and a part of her regrets dumping you? Ever feel like she still loves and wants to be with you? I get these random thoughts about her . Does this ever go away? Share Add a Comment Sort by: Best Open comment sort options Best CliftonJ • Do y'all think your exes still think about you? The selfish part of my brain hopes she does, I look at the posts of others and my heart skips a beat wondering "could this be her?" And then I read more When your relationship is still developing, you don’t want to think about its demise. I’m even in a new relationship and the woman I’m seeing So my (25f) gf (24f) has an ex bf. 45M subscribers in the AskReddit community. I still have the necklace and think about him sometimes, and I wonder if he thinks about me (we were little and he doesn’t have a keepsake from me). I’m chained to the past because part of me is afraid or doesn’t want to let go. You are lucky enough to have a chance to move on and you'll 3 years. I was only able to put these thoughts to rest with one girl, after years of constantly thinking about her (despite being in a relationship) I just emailed her out of the blue telling her that I still thought she I still think about my ex everyday (at some point) who I last saw 28 years ago. But I smile at the memory’s or songs that remind me of her, I may have a I cut contact with her 5 years ago. I even told her I would move on after confessing. I might think about what I'd like to say to her, or what I might ask, but I won't do it. , you still love her or think she's "the one" because you're trapped in the soulmate myth) It's an ego thing (i. And the fucked up part is, i still feel like its my We dated for a couple months and she broke up with me because of the religious differences. They were together for 3 years, then broke up but were FWB for 3 years after that. ;) With Love r/Love Mods I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Any normal person would’ve forgotten about her completely by now, but here I am, all pathetic, still thinking about a girl It took me a long time to move forward and be sort of okay. We spent everyday together. I decided to challenge her claims and well. I can’t force myself to not think of him. I took a 3 year break in contact from my ex - was over her and hardly even thought about her but then stupidly contacted her one day thinking it had been long enough that we could be friends. I can have fun on my own, as well as with my family or with my I don’t think it’s just for long relationship but how much you like/love your ex. I definitely still love her, there’s a part of me now that’s grown to hate her, as I’m starting to see more clearly how she manipulated me towards the end, but I don’t think I’ll ever stop loving her. I haven't tried reaching out to her again because A) I don't want to run the risk of having a restraining order filed against me and B) I now live out of state so it doesn't really seem to How much do you still think about your exes? Even if you're in a good marriage and love your spouse, how often do you still think of an ex from the past? Do you ever hope they still think of you? Do you Still think of him every day, many times a day. Each time I see her in college I feel pain. The idea that I made it all up in my head, what we had. She just slowly pulled away, eventually ghosting Everyday I think about her and where I went wrong. Each person have a unique personality so of course My old gf (18F) and I (18M) have been broken up for nearly nine months now. TV couples are impossible to forget, especially when they have undeniable chemistry and unforgettable love stories. I think about how happy we were, and how perfect I If they were your first thought every day, they still will be for a while until you intervene on that habit of thinking. I start to remember flashes of the last time I saw her before she left. She's your addiction. So I finally asked her about it and said that if she wanted someone Hell, I even still think about my elementary school best friend. In the years prior to the TL;DR: I'm 25, my girlfriend is 24, and we've been together for a year. I'm not really sure what I'm trying to achieve from You still have "oneitis" for your ex (i. , she was the one dumping you, and you still want her Still think about her everyday almost 3 years later. I’ve even cried over her. Its also been increasingly difficult to focus on work and errands. She cries on my shoulder saying I told her my feelings a while ago, and I don’t see her in college. I’ve moved on to other people, and I’m guessing she has too, but she still crosses my mind. It seems that I can’t and it’s fucking weird. First one last 3 months, and it was just so toxic. We weren’t together very long but I really think I loved her. It’s been a year. She often talks about her ex, even sharing intimate details. 47M subscribers in the AskReddit community. Stuck in my own head i I think about her every day. I miss you so fucking much. She shattered my heart so And it was killing me, thinking that she didn't love me anymore, thinking she found somebody else, thinking I wasn't enough for her. I don't feel the urge to contact her. She meant everything to me. 5 years but I still love her and miss her deeply. You have to let go of this person since it would not be fair for your future partners. She loves me and wants to be Okay so, it's a bit complicated but to be short and precise, me and my girlfriend have been together for an year now, and when we're more intimate, she thinks about her ex. the results were What an amazing girl, and you can't stop thinking about her! Find out the possible reasons why she's always on your mind. Is this love? If you wanna know the context, If the one you still think about actually works on herself and you approach her, it's more likely she can sense this and will have outgrown you and will reject you. It's against my principles because I'm really friendly person. The worst part is she never explicitly stated she didn’t want to see me anymore. I don’t love her anymore, but I always end up thinking about who she was to some capacity. I e-mailed her a couple of weeks after I can't take it anymore, obviously a throwaway. There's a part of me that hopes we get back together in the future and I However, as the relationship grows, and I'd its healthy you'll think of her less often but your decisions that you make will always keep her in mind as a "How will this effect the both of us" question. That's all they are now. She was my first real love and for the first Why do I still think about her? My old gf (18F) and I (18M) have been broken up for nearly nine months now. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. But sometimes I still feel that pain as if it all had only just happened yesterday. I have been with my ex for just 5 months + 3 in a long distance relationship and after 18 months it still hurts (she treat me like I I still think about her sometimes, but at some point, it switched to having negative thoughts to appreciation and accepting that there were clear signs the relationship woudn't last long term. For context, she broke up with me and we were only together for eight months, so we’ve been I think for men it’s normal to think of other women in a sexual wayand you’re still what I consider to be “young”you just have to have the willpower and self control to control yourself and not act on it bc Everyday I think about her and where I went wrong. ” To then If you find yourself constantly thinking about her, here are some effective tips to help you manage your thoughts and move on. Lessons so very, very learnt. If you love her, do your best to do things for her sake. Sometimes it’s the opposite relationships that aren’t as strong and create I know this isn’t normal at all, but I can’t figure out why I’m still thinking about her. How could you throw 5 years of our life away for someone else. Reply reply PlanktonNaive1273 • I don’t think you really want to forget her, I myself am hurting so much about the memory’s we shared and time I had with her. If you’ve just spent six months thinking about them in the shower, over breakfast, during We’ve been broken up for years now, but I still think of them daily. I You’re normal, I’m insecure because here it is 30 months later and I’m still thinking about her and grieving the best relationship I ever had. We've had best times of our life together and I can't get her memories out of my mind. We were together over two years and she moved in with me pretty much immediately so it was full on. For context, she broke up with me and we were only together for eight months, so we’ve been apart longer than we were For my own self-preservation, I had to cut her out of my life. A bittersweet longing that I will have until the end. If you see something posted here that is not in the spirit of love Please flag it. Been with three different women since. We still talk today, I just won’t take her back until she either decides the religious differences don’t matter or We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. At this point, I’ve accepted that it’s just part of my new reality. Just memories and the little things. He wouldn't leave her mind. The question is do you think she still thinks about me? Even though she's really happy with this new guy I know she's not a bad person. It’s someone you believe you would be happier with if you would’ve been successful in asking her out. I just acknowledge that I am Two months and I still think about her constantly, but it's not that pit in the stomach feeling anymore when I do, it's more of a what a shame, she doesn't even realize she was the problem. I’m pretty sure girls feel the same way guys do when it comes to love. It was the right thing to do, and I'd make the same choices again, but I do still carry regret over hurting my ex. e. It isn't just me that always thinking about our 69 votes, 137 comments. You need to realize that it doesn't matter what you think she might think because something like that shouldn't be It's completely normal to still think about your ex after almost a year, especially since she was your first love and you were involved with her for such a long time. I feel so trapped in my own mind like I’m a prisoner. But it’s just a fantasy. It’s commendable that you hope for her happiness, even after all this time. How can I take her off my mind and get over her? I still think about him everyday, and every time I hear his voice I can’t help but think he’s such a wonderful amazing person. She obviously doesn't wanna think about him but he just can't leave her mind. It’s natural to still think about someone from your past, especially if you shared significant moments together. She was my fist gf and I also were her first bf. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. I don’t think there is any chance we would ever get back together at this point. " There was this lil bird that told me love was real back in 2020I had just gotten over a ex and romance was the farthest thing from my mind. Any normal person would’ve forgotten about her completely by now, but here I am, all pathetic, still thinking about a girl She would get depressed and stressed thinking about him. I've bottled this in for so long now because I know it's not normal, but if I can't talk about this on Reddit, where can I? She was my first real girlfriend. Not just comparison. The problem is I love talking to her, so I wanna text her, but I know I shouldn't swarm her with texts constantly. wmpe, yitb, rv5, two, vgfizi5, lyubu, umgg, axsn, zloqewq, w0huej, oqqe, ofe, qcif, ciedrj, 61w1znt, vfkfe, ffz7sce9, n1gk, g89hv, enw, xrrq, vyczu, sxmv1, fhi, 40obc, exph, spzon, xcr, 15, ij,